Tuesday, February 15, 2005
loving and letting go
entry 'to ni ela (HS friend, miles away) sa blog niya... para sakin daw. grabe nga e. pero hindi ko na kinopya lahat kase masyado ung mahaba.
ela, wala na yun. tanggap ko na. happy na rin ako.Ü
ela, wala na yun. tanggap ko na. happy na rin ako.Ü
"It's true that love can wait forever but it is crazy to stubbornly hope for someone who doesn't even care or understand how you feel. Love makes us see the things through rose-colored glasses. Most of the time, we fail to recognize the danger sign that light up along our way. This feeling you have nurtured for so long (almost 7 years lang naman Ü) isn't healthy anymore. You must realize that you have to let go now before it consumes you and your sanity. There is always a time to think and stop; a time to be sensible and not to allow our hearts to rule over our heads. You deserve to be happy not in the arms of a man who keeps you waiting but in the arms of someone who will take you now and love you forever. (shocks! ela, gusto ko 'to! Ü)
Don't waste your time waiting for someone who never really cared about how you would have felt. Open your heart again and give yourself the chance to find the man who would make loving worth the pain and the sacrifice.(ahemm...) Just like anything else, our love grows weak and dies, if not taken cared of.
God wakes us in the midst of a storm to teach us a lesson. HE takes away people we love so we can learn to value love itself. HE makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. HE makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no genuine happiness if we think only of our own needs and not of others.
The hardest part of losing love is letting go and moving on. (mahirap talaga. ayoko ngang iniiwan ako e.) Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will be.(oo, na!Ü) God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives and only if we put our trust in Him can we learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows.
Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is resolution we make to ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and loneliest moments. There is always a hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try. Losing someone we love may not be a loss at all but a blessing because someone even more deserving is yet to come.(oo, noh!Ü) There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but we must always be sensitive to the signals that tell us when to rationalize and be sensible. There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn't be as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else.(kaya nga sila na.) There are many times when we love but don't get love in return. There are times when the sign ahead says stop but we still stubbornly head on.(aray ko!)
Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we could experience but if the feeling begins to consume our whole beings, then we have to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate our actions. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures can we truly go on with life. Without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be..."
Don't waste your time waiting for someone who never really cared about how you would have felt. Open your heart again and give yourself the chance to find the man who would make loving worth the pain and the sacrifice.(ahemm...) Just like anything else, our love grows weak and dies, if not taken cared of.
God wakes us in the midst of a storm to teach us a lesson. HE takes away people we love so we can learn to value love itself. HE makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. HE makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no genuine happiness if we think only of our own needs and not of others.
The hardest part of losing love is letting go and moving on. (mahirap talaga. ayoko ngang iniiwan ako e.) Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will be.(oo, na!Ü) God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives and only if we put our trust in Him can we learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows.
Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is resolution we make to ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and loneliest moments. There is always a hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try. Losing someone we love may not be a loss at all but a blessing because someone even more deserving is yet to come.(oo, noh!Ü) There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but we must always be sensitive to the signals that tell us when to rationalize and be sensible. There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn't be as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else.(kaya nga sila na.) There are many times when we love but don't get love in return. There are times when the sign ahead says stop but we still stubbornly head on.(aray ko!)
Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we could experience but if the feeling begins to consume our whole beings, then we have to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate our actions. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures can we truly go on with life. Without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be..."
ela,
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
thanks! yaan mo babalitaan kita. Ü
miss yah! kita tayo, soon...Ü
# posted by Lyn : 10:10 AM
